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The Admission of Children to Holy Communion
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What follows is a very basic introduction to the
background and history of the debate.
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For more detail, you can obtain the Diocese's
"Guidelines for the Admission of the Baptised to Holy Communion before
Confirmation" document (catchy title, innit?!) from
Janet Slater (Bishop John's PA) 0113 224 2789
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Click here to go the section and/or resources you are interested in:
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The
Background:
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In 1997, the General
Synod of the Church of England brought out some guidelines for churches who
wanted to “admit children to Holy Communion” before they were confirmed.
This was in response to a process of thought, and prayer that had
started in the 1960’s, reflecting on the role of children in our churches
– and the importance for a child’s faith development, of a sense of
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In 1999, Ripon & Leeds Diocesan
Synod passed a resolution welcoming the House of Bishops’ Guidelines
regarding Communion before Confirmation, and inviting PCC’s to consider
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In early 2001, clergy received
copies of the Guidelines, and were asked to discuss them with PCC’s and
congregations.
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Some
Arguments in Favour of a Change:
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Holy Communion is the “family meal” which Christians share together,
through which Jesus Christ becomes present to us, and nourishes us spiritually
in bread and wine. For the last 200
years, children have not been allowed to share in this “family meal” until
they were confirmed – normally at the age of 11 or 12 – but it was not
always thus.
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From the earliest church up until the 19th Century, it was
always Baptism that was the gateway to full membership of the Church – and all
who were baptised were permitted to share in the Eucharist. In the Eastern
Orthodox Church, this is still the case.
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Why should the Church of England return to this earlier, way of doing
things? :
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Because faith grows
(in adults as well as in children) through belonging to a community and sharing
in its rituals regardless of our level of understanding.
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Because it seems only
right that children receive the spiritual benefits of the Eucharist as they
grow.
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Because confirmation
has become a “rite of exit” in many churches – which devalues the
preciousness of Communion.
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Because the “family
meal” should include the whole family.
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Because Jesus
challenges adults to become “child-like” and to learn from the children in
our midst.
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Some "Pro's and Con's" to take into Account
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These are the notes of a debate that took place in a large Parish with many
children involved in the life and worship of the church.
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Points in Favour of a Change
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Communion a meal that we share - so should be
open to all.
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Makes children feel more included - we share
“the body” because we belong to “the Body”.
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Acknowledges children’s involvement in the
ministry of the church.
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Children are “asking to be fed” - so surely
we should feed them?
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Encourages children to question - makes things
more open.
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Sharing a meal is a heart-symbol kids can
appreciate long before the head-understanding of confirmation faith comes.
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Are we punishing children for being children?
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Adults no more likely to be “in the right
frame of mind” than kids!
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We don’t ask teenagers or adults to prove
their understanding of communion before receiving, so why children?
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We don’t ask children to “understand”
their baptism!
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Communion not about understanding, but mystery.
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Doing leads to understanding.
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Emphasises importance of grace - God’s free
gift to us.
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God loves us for what we are, not for the
promises we make.
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Baptism is the Christian sacrament of
initiation - there should be no need to have to jump through more hoops before
fully “belonging”.
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Frees up confirmation to be an adult commitment
of personal faith.
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Might lead to less teenagers getting confirmed
simply because it’s “expected”.
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It would make it easier for un-confirmed
teenagers/adults to return to church feeling they belong.
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Why did children stop receiving in some parts
of the church and not others, 1000 years ago - human, not divine rules?
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Concerns about a Change
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Some children don’t feel left out.
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Does it imply that a blessing is second-best?
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Yet another thing that children haven’t got
to wait for.
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A certain level of maturity and understanding
is necessary to receive in an appropriate frame of mind.
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At what age would we draw the line?
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Is it OK to give children alcohol?
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Will it make confirmation irrelevant?
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Will many end up never getting round to being
confirmed?
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What would children gain by receiving the bread
and wine?
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Desire to avoid “First Communions” becoming
a jamboree.
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Will it detract from “specialness” of
Confirmation? - [Taking Communion for the first time is an important part of
that rite of passage.]
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It’s not fair on those children and teenagers
who’ve had to wait - how will they feel?
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What about unbaptised children or adults?
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What about the practicalities - how to know who
to give to at Parade Services e.g.
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Some parents would prefer to have the final say
in whether or not their children receive, rather than having a “blanket”
policy.
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